A tell tale .. being a perfect woman !!

'Behind every successful man there is a woman' , Tell-tale by many & evidenced by quite a few ...now we can call this woman a mother or a wife or a lover or whatever you may deem fit ...but ya there is one for sure backing him , while the man plays well on his front foot ! 

Behind every successful woman is however just her own self is another tell tale of the recent times though ( oh this is a new phenomenon .. the ultra women propounded it ) ! My view like the usual times is again and aberrant one ... I wud say, behind every successful / right tracked woman is just not her own self but far too many people ...many more societal moral cops putting her in a stymie each day , as they say 'Beta ab ho Gaya accha shadi kar lo' , 'Tumhe hee ghar sambhalna hai ' , 'bacche aapke primary responsibility hain ' ,  ' 'maternity leave hai na ' , oh aap devi swaroop hain aap sab se pehale auron ko dekhen' , aap ko hee samajhna hoga'! 

My toes curled in anguish when I hear that the hypocrisy is so heavily laden in our society that it's impossible to outgrow this ... I am not unhappy with the way we have evolved neither I am challenging the support and love my female colleagues / friends  get from their  spouses/ family, but somewhere some part of people around you  hold you responsible for all that they wud not do , cos' tum ho na tum kar logee , a woman is a form of goddess !! 

Lack of paternity leave policies in India , Less  than 10% women in leadership across sectors , Educated  yet unemployed young women .... bear a testimony to this fact ... why can this not be an equal game !! 

I don't need a separate queue cos' of my gender, 

I don't also need a separate queued list of social hypocritically sealed data of how to be a perfect Naree or a Mahan aurat !! 

I so wish I can change some minds ,

And the first to start wud be mine . 

I so wish I grow to be a rule book aberrant , 

Success for whom is not someone's judgement . 

I so wish there is only love when we talk of pink and blue ... 

Colours in my palette shud have all the hues . 

From an aberrant rebel and yet a perfect partner !! 

Love Ships :)